From Chaos to Sovereignty: Transform Your Life with The Survivor’s Method®
You were born a survivor. I teach you how to become sovereign.
💥 Trigger Warning: This is not polished. It is not pretty. It is raw. If you are sensitive or may relive trauma, read with care. This is a story of survival, resilience, and transformation, not just a shock to the system.
Before: Surviving the Impossible
I slept in my car. Heartbroken. Alone. With zero safety net.
I navigated Los Angeles streets for five months, completing nearly 5,000 rides, surviving near-accidents, betrayal, and heartbreak.
Every morning I anchored myself in faith and discipline:
• Completed a 14-minute ice bath with Navy SEAL breathing while sleeping in my car because I wasn’t going to let a moment passing in time stop me. At least there was a place to shower and work on my mindset.
• Downed six raw eggs at Gold’s Gym Venice while sleeping in my car. Still showed up daily despite what was going on, even in the most intimidating spaces.
• Daily training, celibacy, ZERO alcohol, cigarettes, porn, marijuana or junk food…. While sleeping and working out of my car.
I did not just survive. I learned to thrive under pressure, turning chaos into strategy, heartbreak into clarity, and uncertainty into power.
“I really went from frozen to freedom within ten days, which is quick and amazing. Now after working with her for almost two months, I can say that my life is completely different.” – Kristin H.
This is not luck. This is deliberate choice, discipline, and courage.
My Life Before Healing
From early childhood, life demanded resilience beyond my years:
• Could not speak until I was 3
• SA at 5
• Exposed to adult material by 8
• House hoarded with orange pill bottles: OxyContin, Percocet, Vicodin, Xanax, and Lithium
• Begged my alcoholic father to stop drinking
• Father died a year after I graduated university
The Turning Point
From childhood trauma to surviving assault, bullying, and family chaos, my life demanded one thing: break free from the scripts written for me.
Through martial arts, dance, meditation, and unwavering faith, I learned to:
• Protect my energy
• Reclaim my voice
• Strengthen my boundaries
• Say no without guilt or shame
• Stand unapologetically in my power
• Stand up for myself
• Take leaps of faith and create what my heart desired most
“I don't just, like, dream of having clarity. I live in it. I don't wonder or just have moments about my intuition. I live in it now. It's so clear. The amount of clarity I have in my life, I think I've never experienced this level of consistent, just real clarity before.” - Kristin H.
I transformed my life, mindset, and destiny. Now I teach women to do the same.
Introducing: The Survivor’s Method®
The Survivor’s Method® is a 6-month transformational program for ambitious, self-aware women — the black sheep, generational curse breakers, bullied and those who have been overlooked, underestimated, or silenced.
This program does not just break habits. It rebuilds lives, clarity, and courage.
“Working with her within ten days, I already did not feel like that already, like, really, really quickly. I really went from frozen to freedom within ten days, which is quick and amazing. Now after working with her for almost two months, I can say that my life is completely different.” - Kristin H.
💎What You Will Gain
You will learn to:
• Get clear on who you are now
• Build something meaningful — a book, brand, business, or unbreakable boundary
• Lead without compromising yourself
• Gain clarity, confidence, and emotional resilience
• Cut the habits and patterns blocking your momentum
• Build a powerful support system
• Rewire your identity, just like I went from survivor → author → program creator
• Attract higher-quality relationships and environments
• Cultivate warlike courage — enough to handle mediation rooms, boardrooms, and big decisions
• Develop a Navy SEAL–level mindset
• Stand up for yourself
• Get physically stronger — because movement is part of the method
This is not therapy or a replacement for therapy. This is a supportive, actionable, identity-shifting framework designed to move you forward. It’s raw and real - no fluff. No rainbows and sunshine. No bullshit.
Let us turn your story into your superpower and your mission into momentum.
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🧩Why It Works
The Survivor’s Method® merges:
• Discipline of martial arts
• Scientific perspective infused to cut and replace framework included from degree in Biology
• Clarity from mindset training gathered from two 10 day meditation retreats and vigorous life long physical training
• Confidence and joy from movement and dance
By combining mind, body, and soul, women cut emotional loops, replace old habits with empowering ones, and build structure around their purpose.
“The way she listens and checks in is next level; she communicate with intentions of altruism and asserts the necessity of taking care of yourself.” - Lavaronte H.
This program is not for heavy addictions. I am not equipped to help people in this sense. It is designed to strip lingering toxicity in order to build full confidence, self-respect, and discernment.
💎Your Coach’s Authority
I have walked this path:
• Confronted narcissistic men to their face when before I may have let them in
• Left jobs and situations where people tried to take advantage of me
• Defended others while enduring bullying myself and emerged stronger every time
• Helped women reclaim their power, boundaries, and confidence
• Settled a 6-hour legal mediation with no law background
• Drove across the country in 3 days to start new
• Completed 5,000+ rideshare rides as a woman driver — boundaries hardwired
• Wrote my first book during a global pandemic in LA
• Worked out of my car for 5 months while heartbroken and STILL training daily, never breaking a protocol
• 8 years alcohol-free, 3 years pornography-free, 3 years dating app-free, 8 years cigarette-free, 9 years celibate, 3 years marijuana-free
• Encourages asking the right questions in one’s life to get the clearest answers.
“I would say if you're thinking about working with Shari… do it if, and here's my if. If you are just looking for someone to tell you to, like, meditate ten minutes every day or journal out your emotions sometimes, I don't think Shari’s the right person. But if you’re like.. I really want to make some changes in my life. I really don't want to feel the way I feel anymore. I'm ready to do some things that might feel uncomfortable, and I'm ready to really live and feel a lot different than I do right now. I'm ready for the next level of my life. I'm ready to see what it's like to whatever your dream might be. If that's where you are, then work with Shari. She is a no BS person and she can see your potential and she can see, like, really see into you, and so she's not going to let you make excuses on this path.” - Kristin H.
🧩Real-Life Impact
Clients often report:
• Stronger boundaries and heightened confidence
• Creation of a product or business
• Emotional clarity and inner peace
• Freedom from habitual loops and comfort addictions
• Greater energy, health, and focus
• New opportunities, higher income, creative breakthroughs
• Ability to lead, launch, and live unapologetically
“A year has passed, and her daily habits have rubbed off on me. Currently, I have a completed screenplay under my belt, a newly launched clothing brand, and my very own book in the works.” - Tommy “Trash” Lane
“There’s so many other breakthroughs I could talk about. I was able to break sugar addiction. I've been sugar and alcohol free, since working with her for almost two months now. And, so, like, my physical health is different. My actual health is different. My sleep is different. My ability to have mental clarity and to bring that back to a spiritual place of clarity. I just feel like I'm living and connected to myself now rather than just kind of floating through life.” - Kristin H.
“From fighting substance addiction and navigating life in a shared living community, to finding employment and recentering myself in spirituality, Shari has changed my life as an example of patience, healthy communication, motivation, and ultimately, holistic health.” - Lavaronte H.
This is for women ready to stop being overlooked or silenced and stand fully in their power.
💎FAQ
What do you offer?
A faith-based transformational coaching system to move from survival to full self-leadership, rebuilding confidence, boundaries, self-respect, and purpose.
Who is this for?
Ambitious, self-aware women who have survived trauma, heartbreak, or burnout and are ready to lead. They may resonate with being the black sheep in the family, being bullied in the past, generational curse breakers and outcasts.
Who is this not for?
• Not a replacement for therapy
• Not for those dabbling in old patterns or struggling with heavy addictions
• Not for those seeking coddling or validation without accountability
What is new?
Merges martial arts, mindset, a cut and replace framework backed with a scientific background, and dance while burning bridges with habits that no longer serve you.
What can it do for me?
• Cut emotional loops
• Rebuild confidence
• Upgrade identity
• Launch a business, brand, or life chapter
• Remove fake or non-supportive energy
How does it work?
Cut and Replace framework: identify draining energy, replace with empowering habits, build structure around purpose.
Investment
💎 $80 — 1/2 hour à la carte session
💎 $155 — 1-hour à la carte session
💎 $555 — Self-Paced Formula (1 session/week for 1 month)
💎 $1,500 — 1-month Private Coaching
💎 $5,000 — 3-month Metamorphosis Masterplan
💎 $10,000 — 6-month Full Mentorship
💎 $15,000 — Yearly Plan ($1,250/month)
6 months is the full Metamorphosis Masterplan. 1-3 month options give flexibility and the yearly tier is for women who need high touch support.
Apply today
Submit your application at TheSurvivorsMethod.com to schedule your clarity call or secure your spot. Once reviewed, you will receive onboarding instructions to step fully into your power.
🔥 Stop surviving. Start thriving. Work with Shari. Read her words, listen to her speak, and watch the energy. There is only action.
Click below 👇 to apply. Spots are reviewed weekly.